Saturday, November 9, 2024

Rediscovering Joy!!!


                  I was talking to my colleague about my blog and the poems I used to write but don’t anymore. I showed him some of my poems, and he seemed both shocked and impressed. As he started reading, I watched his face closely, curious to see his reaction. And yes, he loved it. Then he asked me, "Why don’t you write poems now?" Honestly, I didn’t have an answer. I think it’s because I’ve been so busy chasing things I haven’t achieved, that I forgot about the things I used to enjoy doing.

He said something that really stuck with me: "Don’t stop doing what you love. If you stop, what will be the reason behind your happiness?"

When I got home, I started reflecting on how lucky I am to have so many hobbies. I feel very grateful to have things in my life that I genuinely care about. We all have something in our lives to be grateful for. It could be anything—money, friendships, relationships, career, health, or other things that bring us joy. As I thought about this on my way home, I even started crying. It feels wonderful to have something to be grateful for.

                                                                                                        - PEACE

Wednesday, November 6, 2024

Inside!!

                 I was arguing with my mother today, We both were yelling a each other, after 5 mins I was not feeling good. I was sad coz I yelled at her and what ever the reason is. Then I remember the word 'REACT'.  It was from one of the book which I read 6 months back. It says if you know to how to react on any situation then you can make your peace. It means how I react to certain situation. In my case if I would have nice reaction or little lower reaction then I wouldn't be regretting the things which I did.     

                 You can relate to many situation like if someone started laughing at you at college or someone is making fun of you in you company etc. But the way we react it gives you your personality. You are what you are inside. If you are confused person like me then you have to get things done as I am trying to do. It is difficult but we can do it. 

                I am great believer of MANIFESTATION, Positive talking. If we have to be great we have to loose some negative people around us, there are many but we have to keep distance. My point of writing this today is, to remind me not to react quickly. If you ever observe successful people are very quiet. Lets start doing this. 


                                                                                                        - Peace out     

Tuesday, November 5, 2024

Relationship


                As we know we have different types of relationships with different people, but today I am in the mood of writing about healthy relationship with your partner. 

                 I asked one of my friend this question - what do you see in you future partner? And she replied He should be loyal, I want him to take care of me etc. I was so confused and angry at her. You know why? Because those things were not option, those are the basic things and mandatary things to have in a partner. IF YOU NEED TO ASK HIM TO TAKE CARE OF YOU, THEN BABY HE IS NOT INTO YOU. 

                 Why do we called the relationship healthy? When you are in a group and your partner wake up to drink water, WITHOUT ASKING YOU HE BRING YOU WATER. Or If he waits for you to come from work and open the amazon parcel just to see your reaction, When you both are sharing food and he doesn't eat first bite coz you love food and he wans to see your reaction. 

                   For boys, When she knows how to handle you when you ae angry, or when you are sad, She tries to learn about bikes, cars. She listen to your day and brings you flowers, foods. etc
                  
                See, In any relationships FIGHTS are mandatory, Fights are not the problem of relationship the main problem is how to solve it. If you understood the fight language of your partner then to balle balle bhai sahab !!! After some point in your life you will get bored or get angry at each others is that mean breakup? No it means You have to talk or you have to do some activity together so that you can solve the things. 
                
                As we know every person is different, in that case every relationship is different then the other. So never compare your relationship with other. 


                                                                                                                    - Peace out. 







  

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