As we know we have different types of relationships with different people, but today I am in the mood of writing about healthy relationship with your partner.
I asked one of my friend this question - what do you see in you future partner? And she replied He should be loyal, I want him to take care of me etc. I was so confused and angry at her. You know why? Because those things were not option, those are the basic things and mandatary things to have in a partner. IF YOU NEED TO ASK HIM TO TAKE CARE OF YOU, THEN BABY HE IS NOT INTO YOU.
Why do we called the relationship healthy? When you are in a group and your partner wake up to drink water, WITHOUT ASKING YOU HE BRING YOU WATER. Or If he waits for you to come from work and open the amazon parcel just to see your reaction, When you both are sharing food and he doesn't eat first bite coz you love food and he wans to see your reaction.
For boys, When she knows how to handle you when you ae angry, or when you are sad, She tries to learn about bikes, cars. She listen to your day and brings you flowers, foods. etc
See, In any relationships FIGHTS are mandatory, Fights are not the problem of relationship the main problem is how to solve it. If you understood the fight language of your partner then to balle balle bhai sahab !!! After some point in your life you will get bored or get angry at each others is that mean breakup? No it means You have to talk or you have to do some activity together so that you can solve the things.
As we know every person is different, in that case every relationship is different then the other. So never compare your relationship with other.
- Peace out.
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